Let’s tell you, singlehood needn’t be taken as a phase to mourn, weep and feel miserable as if you form a cocoon of negative thoughts and allow yourself to live in the past; then so it shall be. The show must continue; you can’t just stop living because one person has left your life. It’s not like that, and it doesn’t work that way.
So here are some ways you can deal with bachelorhood:
- Remember your bachelor days, what you used to do during that time, which you used not to do since you got married? Yes, you got it; hang out with friends, which you couldn’t live without before and had forgotten over the years after you got married. So catch up with old and new friends and watch a soccer match together, maybe over tubs of beer.
- Go on a trip with your friends. Going out with old friends, like your school friends, may help you chill out, forget the past and accept the present, which is the need of the hour. You must do everything that makes you come out of your sorrowful shackle, and don’t hesitate to go all out to do it.
- Go on a solo trip. This also helps pull things up and set you on the right path of healing as you get time to introspect yourself, the situation, your future, and how you want to go forward. So do it if you feel it’ll help you.
- Throw out things that you do not want. So long you didn’t have time to sort out your clutter, but now you do and should do it, as living with clutter all your life is not a good idea.
- Get involved in a hobby – Join any hobby class; if you don’t know swimming, join a swimming class or play the guitar or something of this sort, which will drive your focus to something else rather than the pain or sorrow.
- Built your body – Now is the right time to start bodybuilding, as now you are ‘Single and ready to mingle,’ so here, body matters a lot; hence join a gym and get yourself in the right direction of building your body.
- A Pet. Get yourself a pet; pets are always a source of happiness, as they tend to love you unconditionally, they never criticize, and they find their master the best in the world, irrespective of their nature, looks, etc. Nobody will condemn you for being short, or for a long nose, etc., in the animal world; hence it is the best world.
- Try to dig into your inner self – See whether so long for the sake of your spouse, did you lead a double-faceted life, in the sense your personality was different and you showed yourself to be like someone else; if this is the case, it’s the right time to know your true self.
So, all in all, you must have understood by now that once you are faced with a tragic situation, you need not continue in that sad, gloomy phase, as there are also escorts in London out there, who can provide you with companionship with which you can forget all your worries and tensions.