As beautiful as love is, it is incomplete without physical attraction and passionate sex. In other words, sex is like a fire that keeps the relationship going. The moment this fire begins to burn low, love starts to diminish and excitement slowly evaporates.
Having experienced this, I know exactly what it feels like for the fire of love to be burning low. Luckily, I was able to sail through this difficult period because I discovered a new way of having sex. Yes, opening up to trying something new like sex toys and BDSM role-play saved my relationship! Once my partner and I introduced toys and started playing with restraints our relationship took a new turn. We started to feel fulfilled and happy with each other again.
So, if you want to bring back the excitement and sexual charge that you used to have, all you need is an open mind and a set of BDSM gear. Do you still feel that BDSM thing is not for you? Keep reading this article as I will be sharing more details on how BDSM gear brought back the excitement into my relationship.
What do people expect from a long-term relationship? Is it a strong bond between the partners? Or, maybe, unconditional love? Possibly, respect for one another? Yes, Yes, and Yes! We had it all. In fact, from the outside it looked like we were a golden couple who had it all figured out. However, we both knew that the excitement was not there anymore and we were becoming shadows of ourselves.
In hopes of finding a way to salvage what was left of our dying relationship, I came about BDSM gear. This is a series of sex toys and equipment that are used to enhance the physical excitement and sensations. I learned that the most important aspect of BDSM relationship is unconditional trust between the partners during the role play. Every couple is unique so everybody chooses the toys and playtime intensity based on their needs and desires.
The very first time we used BDSM type of toys we were excited but didn’t know exactly what to expect. To our surprise, and thanks to all the sensory play that we got from using our new toys, we had an amazing first experience which encouraged us to keep exploring other BDSM possibilities. Next thing we knew, we were excited again about spending time together and exploring each other’s fantasies. Our bond got stronger than ever before and love for each other reached new heights. I’m very happy and proud to say that recently we celebrated our 16-year anniversary. It wouldn’t have happened if we didn’t start communicating our sexual needs to each other, which led us into trying out BDSM toys and role-play.
Yes, you can spice-up your relationship with BDSM gear but for it to work its magic, you first have to be willing to try new things, trust your partner in this new adventure and, of course, communicate your needs, desires and limitations. If you got all this covered, then go ahead and enjoy yourself as you’re about to enter a whole new world of sexual possibilities.
